For A Match Made in Heaven

Magical golden city of Prague

If matches are made in heaven, it's only fair that the wedding setting, looks heavenly. That could be why Prague is emerging as the world most preferred wedding destination. It's reputation of being Europe’s most romantic city work to its advantage, and statistics show that there is a steady increase in the number of people who are getting married in this magical golden city.

The wedding rush

I was there last year and had to flight the bride, groom, their photographers, assistants, bridesmaids and family members, to get that one photograph in front of  the astronomical clock taken. In the half hour that I waited for my turn I was outsmarted by at least five separate wedding parties, and their highly efficient team of wedding planners.

Ian, my guide, told me that weddings brought in much of the city’s revenue and the Kempinski Hotel Hybernska hosted as many as 35 weddings during the season that year. Back in India, I did a quick googled and figured that Prague has a lot to offer to a couple looking to marry there.

The ‘Marrying Abroad’ concept has it's benefits. You can avoid inviting the whole world and his uncle to your wedding. Even if they are invited, chances of them loosening their purse strings and traveling that extra mile is not very high. This means your wedding can be as private as you want it to be, without offending too many people. 

For a church wedding

When it comes to locations, Prague has them all. A white church wedding, a non-conventional one in a wine cellar, a Walt Disney inspired fairy tale before a Neo-Gothic castle or an outdoor setting in the vineyard - what you ask is what you will get, and for a fee that is easily affordable. One wedding websites quoted € 250 for a cellar wedding, all inclusive! And if you want to mix in some local flavours, then rest assured because Czech cuisine is as mind blowing as its Bohemian countryside.

The wedding industry is thriving alongside in Prague with stores catering to customer demands for designer wedding wear, jewellery and gifts. The same can be said about specialty bake stores and florists, not to mention photographers and beauty experts. But what is interesting is that most Prague weddings are of people who chose to marry there, with the maximum number of couples flying in from USA and UK.

Czech livings in the country believe in taking it slow. Post the 1980s' there has been a drop in the number of people wanting to get married. The government has therefore started organising regular Marriage Week since 1998 to encourage couples to marry and to stay in their marriages. Co-organised by churches, family centers and NGOs the Marriage Week has seminars, debates, concerts and movie screenings all aimed at getting this idea across.

But meanwhile if you want to put ring on it, consider Praha. Photography, in most cases at least, comes complimentary.

A wedding in Praha

Kutna Hora: Feel It In Your Bones

Yonder, the Prague castle

It is easy to be mesmerised by the beautiful setting of Prague… the historical Old Town with its astronomical clock, churches, castles, cobbled pathways, Charles Bridge and the quite flowing Vltava River. Just around the corner, is the Jewish Quarter and here sits the holocaust memorial alongside the Old Jewish Cemetery. The Cemetery has 12,000 tombstones, with bodies piled 15 people high. The varying size and the positioning of the tombstones reflect the urgency of the situation and the chaos that must have prevailed. The Jewish memorial is close by, and the walls record the name of every single person who died during the Nazi era. There in the eyes of a silent visitor, I saw reflected the pain of the past. The Spanish Synagogue is a less forlorn structure. With its Moorish design it looks more like a mosque, and is by far the most ornate and beautiful synagogue I've walked into.

Tombstones, Moorish interiors and the wall memorial 

My partner and I wandered through the alleys and the lanes of Prague for a whole day, and as night fell reluctantly made our way back to the hotel. Our accommodation was further away from the city center and we had to take both the subway and the tram to get there. The whole exercise took nearly half an hour, and because we weren't sure about the frequency of trams along that line, we decided to settle in early.

Bohemia - of vineyards, churches and cottages

Kostnice Sedlec Ossuary

Travel brochures at the hotel advertised day trips to Kutna Hora for € 35 per person, and though a group tour was an easier thing to do, we decided to figure it out on our own. At 10 am the next day, from the main station Hlavní nádraží, we took a train to Kutná Hora hl.n. The ride was a little over an hour and getting there early would ensure that we have more time at Kutna Hora before taking the 6 pm back. At Kutná Hora hl.n we stopped to grab a cup of coffee at the only shop in the station, but this delay cost us our connecting ride into town. The next one would take 45 minutes. Of course we blamed each other for the mistake and started on a silent long walk along the now empty road. But nature has its way, and when we saw a tree laden with apples we forgot our differences and ran towards it like children in a park.

Boney grail 

Kutna Hora, the small town just outside Prague is known for two things. Kostnice Sedlec Ossuary, a chapel which was to become the highlight of my trip and Saint Barbara's Church, a Gothic structure which is on the UNESCO world heritage list. There is nothing pleasant about the Czech sun, but after a long walk we found ourselves in the shady grove of the Ossuary. In ancient times when burial grounds were scarce, especially after a catastrophe like plague (Black Death) or war, dead bodies were buried in temporary graves and the skeletal remains later moved to an Ossuary. There are bone chapels in other parts of Europe (Paris, Austria or Portugal) but none can beat the might of the Kostnice Sedlec Ossuary.

At the gate we were given a printed document, with statistics, history and other details associated with this chapel. In the 19th century the aristocratic family of Schwarzenberg entrusted the upkeep of the Ossuary to František Rint, a woodcarver. I suspect this talented man was fascinated by death, because it was he who used the excavated bones to create décor pieces. At the entrance sits a giant bone-made chalice – a rather imaginative replica of the Holy Grail. The Schwarzenberg family’s coat of arms is on the right and behind is a heap of skulls and bones, arranged to form a large pyramid. According to the pamphlet, the artist hasn't used any wires or strings to hold these in place. They are simply piled in a certain angle. An intimidating bone chandelier, which is said to include every bone in the human body, forms the centerpiece of the Ossuary. 

Centerpiece Chandelier

Crucifix, Coat of Arms and bone pyramid

The crucifix is in the far corner, but I couldn't imagine someone sitting down for a prayer. Surprisingly, I didn't find the place spooky either; it felt more like the insides of a museum. Little boys ran amongst the skull structures making lots of noise and sometimes tugging impatiently at their mother’s skirts. The loud clicks of the cameras and the hushed whispers of the visitors broke the silence of the room. I was fascinated by the macabre, and I think, it is by far the most crazy, surreal thing I've laid eyes on - the fleeting nature of life, expressed through bone art.  

In the medieval town 

We then walked towards Saint Barbara's Church. Kutna Hora is a medieval town in the Central Bohemian Region, and in most parts time stands perfectly still. Winding paved roads, red tile roofs, neatly planted vineyards and in the centre of it all the tall steeple of the church. It is only natural that this town of silver mines would pay their tributes to Saint Barbara - the patron saint of miners. The Gothic exteriors of the church seemed far more appealing than the stain-glass interiors, or maybe the lure of fine Bohemian wine (sold just outside) got the better of me.

Still buzzing from its impact, we waited patiently for the bus to take us back to the station. At the end of the day, arguments, long walks and tired legs can be justified if the adventure you've had is worth it. At Kutna Hora, for half the money advertised on the hotel pamphlet, we managed to have the time of our lives. 

You will too. I can feel it in my bones! 

 

Saint Barbara's Church